John J. Bray

John J. Bray, 84, of Stanfordville, NY, passed away at home on June 29, 2025, surrounded by the love and comfort of his family.

Born in the Bronx to Catherine Kelly and John Patrick Bray, John grew up with strong family values and a deep sense of purpose. He graduated from Martin Van Buren High School and went on to earn a Bachelor of Science in Sociology from St. John’s University. In 1963, he proudly joined the New York City Police Department, where he dedicated 20 years of service and rose to the rank of lieutenant before retiring in 1983.

Following his retirement from the NYPD, John continued to dedicate his life to helping others. He served as the Personnel Director at the Astor Home for Children until his retirement in 2009. Never one to sit still, John embarked on a third career as Director of Operations at the Children’s Home of Poughkeepsie, where his leadership and compassion left a lasting mark.

John was a devoted husband to his beloved wife, Ann, with whom he shared over 50 years of marriage. Together they built a life centered on love, family, and unwavering support for one another. He was a proud and loving father to Kimberly Henry Canner and her husband Michael, Jennifer Lamping and her husband Richard, and Douglas Bray. Nothing brought John more joy than being “Grandpa” to his eight cherished grandchildren: Emily, Richie, Jason, Hailey, Stella, Cayden, Gavin, and Delaney. He was their biggest fan—present for every milestone, numerous school events and cheering them on at games, always with a smile of pride. Among the many special memories John created with his family, their trips to Walt Disney World held a special place in his heart. What began as a magical first visit with his children in 1980, blossomed into a family tradition that continued for decades. As the family grew, so did the joy of these adventures. These vacations were more than just trips—they were treasured moments that reflected John’s deep love for making memories with those he held closest.

John is also survived by his siblings: Dennis and his wife Nancy, Bobby and his wife Patty, and Kathy and her husband Jeff, as well as many loving nieces and nephews who held a special place in his heart.

A man of quiet strength and deep intellect, John was an avid reader of history and found great joy in collecting model trains, planes and cars that each held a special meaning to events in his life. He was a loyal friend to many, always ready with thoughtful advice and a steady hand in times of need. His gift for planning and problem-solving brought reassurance and clarity to those around him.

John took special pride in the home he helped build for his parents. He found peace in the simple joys of country life, especially riding his tractor around his property known as “Kit and Jack Acres,” named after his loving parents.

Above all else, John lived for his family. His presence was a constant source of comfort, strength and love. He leaves behind a legacy of integrity, generosity, and empathy that will live on in all who knew him.

Family and friends are invited to share memories and offer condolences on July 4, 2025 from 3:00 to 7:00pm at Peck & Peck Funeral Homes, 7749 South Main Street, Pine Plains, NY 12567. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00am on July 5, 2025 from Immaculate Conception Church in Amenia. Interment will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Stanfordville. In lieu of flowers, donations in John’s memory may be made to Hudson Valley Hospice.